There are an endless amount of views on children’s mental health and there are an endless amount of arguments and struggles that this topic causes. More specifically in schools and the help that children may or may not be receiving and the problems this is causing. I have the same point of view as many, which is that children in both middle school and high school are not getting the right amount of help and many go unseen throughout school because they do not know how to ask for help and this a growing problem. Many believe that the school is giving enough help to children and there’s not much more to be done, some also believe that it is the parent’s responsibility to get their children help, or even that it is the child’s responsibility to ask for help. I disagree with many of these views, I agree on a small level that the parent’s should play a bigger part in getting their child help when they need it, but I believe, and so do many professionals, that there can be a great amount of improvement don’t within the schools and their ability to find kids that need help and to be able to give them the sufficient amount of help they need.
I have a strong view on mental health with kids and the involvement of the education systems because they can have a strong affect and they can be a lot more involved than they are now. Laura Holt did an experiment where she took 20 at risk students and compared those students to 20 different at risk students, but these students received adult mentoring intervention. She found that the 20 at risk students who received the adult mentoring intervention “exhibited significantly less decline during the first year of high school in perceived teacher support and decision making and were less likely to enter the discipline system. (Holt, 2008) This is strong evidence to my belief in the fact that the schools can involve much more time into helping at risk students than they do. Being an at risk student throughout all of school I understand extremely well that it was hard for me to ask for help and I refused to go into a counseling office to talk to somebody, but I know that if they sought me out and asked me about things I would definitely be more inclined to talk. It is easier than it seems to seek out at risk students, many of them act out if defiant ways or refuse to participate in school and it tends to be obvious which students do so. I believe that there can be more programs implemented into school systems that can help, such as the one that Holt implemented, and I believe that positive results can come out of it. This tends to be controversial because people do not believe that the education systems can cause a positive difference because they do not have trust within the education systems. There are so many variables within the systems that make it hard to believe, but by making any effort, such as implementing a mentor program, we can make changes in the at risk students lives and help them become and strive towards being a positive member and contributor of society.
Another problem that schools face towards helping students with their mental issues is that counselors may not be taking their job as serious as it should be taken. When I was in high school my counselors were a joke because you could tell it was routine for them and whether you dropped out or became successful really didn’t matter to them because they would continue to get paid. I don’t believe this is the largest issue that we face towards helping at risk students but it definitely is a problem in the less prominent areas of the country. Gina Vines wrote about her experience and her motives as a middle school counselor and this is a prime example of what counselors and people who want to help adolescents with their lives should be like. “As a middle school counselor, I have the opportunity to truly touch the lives of this challenging group. (Vines, 2005)” This is something she said within her writing and it touched me because I wish that the counselors that tried to help me had this motivation. A prime example of what could be done to help at risk students, which is find people who take this job seriously and to them it is more than a job because they will take more care and have greater passion. To help students that don’t realize they need help and don’t want help is definitely one of the hardest jobs to attempt because having to help someone realize and see what they can’t see is near impossible. However it becomes easier when you have a passion such as Gina Vines does and this backs up what I have been trying to explain. That there is so much more that the schools can do to help students who need help, they could increase the qualifications to become a school counselor and make sure they know that helping kids is more than a job, but a decision to help save lives and have the courage to intervene into a life that needs help. It might be important to focus more on the areas of the country that have increased poverty because there are more at risk students in this area and they lack the most on people who are not scared to get involved in their lives and who will not leave when things get hard.
A change happens with kids when they go from being in middle school to high school, which is the idea that they create in their head that they don’t need counseling, they’ve never been in counseling but now they need it less, or they will never need it at all. This becomes an extreme issue with kids because as they get older they understand these problems they face with greater and greater comprehension and it causes stress because they understand what’s happening, but not why. When they are in middle school and younger it seems like a problem but it will go away or it doesn’t have a great significance on their lives, but once they get into high school and become more exposed to more life experiences and they learn how to understand these situations it causes such negative emotions and horrible thoughts because they do not know how to guide themselves through this. I believe that their first year of high school is the most important area to begin helping at risk students because that is when they first start to shape themselves and the time they need the help the most. Jennifer Yu wrote about this specific topic and shows statistical data that she has collected that proves this point and backs it up extremely well. She shows the difference between students who received counseling as adults and students who did not receive counseling as adults. The students who received counseling had higher rates of students that got a high school diploma, got a college degree, and went on to make a higher annual salary. Students who received counseling also had lower rates of attempted suicide, less severe depression symptoms, and had less severe experiences after high school. This should be a point of emphasis when becoming a high school counselor and being able to find the students who believe they do not need help and offering that help and not forcing it on them, but to be persistent and to make sure they know you are there so in their greatest time of need they can come to you. Finding the at risk students in their first year of high school can be critical because it can either be the time of their life that destroys their future and any hope of finding knowledge to overcome the atrocities of life, or it can be the time of their lives where they learn and find the knowledge and gain the confidence to go through life and face these negative experiences knowing they can and will overcome them. So getting to these at risk students and helping them get the knowledge on how to deal with life before they can be ruined by all the negative forces that act upon them is critical and I believe that schools can do a better job of being involved.
I don’t put all the blame on the schools and the amount of effort they have put into counselors and helping at risk students, but I do believe they play an extremely big part and can have a great affect than they actually do have. I provided examples of the programs that can be implemented into schools to help students who are in need and the positive results that can come from them. There are many programs that can be put into place, especially in higher poverty areas, that can take the amount of students who drop out and commit suicide and lower that number. Also, there is an example of a counselor who absolutely loves helping students who are in need, which is a great standard for what all counselors who plan to help students should be just like. If we set the standard higher than what it is now, I believe we can get the ball rolling and increase the amount of help at risk students receive. I have included my thoughts and information backing it on the best time to start helping at risk students, which would be their first year of high school if not sooner because it is the best time to start educating them on dealing with the trials of life and how to deal with their emotions in the best way, and to even turn these bad dealings and negative emotions into fuel to excel in life and to be more than just a statistic. There are many ways that schools can help at risk students and save them from a life of depression, it just needs to be recognized that what is going on in the schools right now is not enough and we need to make a change.
References
- Holt, L. J., Bry, B. H., & Johnson, V. L. (2008). Enhancing school engagement in at-risk,
urban minority adolescents through a school-based, adult mentoring intervention. Child & Family Behavior Therapy, 30(4), 297-318. doi: http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/07317100802482969
- Vines, G. (2005). Middle schooling counseling: Touching the souls of
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- Yu, J. W., Adams, S. H., Burns, J., Brindis, C. D., & Irwin, C. E. (2008). Use of mental
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