Throughout all my life I have never had a concrete dream to look up to and accomplish it. I do not believe on having dreams. Instead, I believe everyone should pursue his or her “ideal person”. The ideal person cannot be seen as the person you want to become when you grow up. Nevertheless, the ideal person should be looked as a model. This model is more than a dream.
At this moment I am sure you are completely confused and thinking what the hell is happening to me. I do not believe in dreams because dreams can be accomplished. What I mean is, when you accomplish your dream, what happens after? Do you do whatever you want in your life because you have accomplished your dream and you have nothing else to live for in your life? In other words, what accomplishing a dream means to me is that you surpassed the one goal you had in your life, therefore you can die since there is no point to continue living in our Earth. Therefore, when dreams are accomplished you become a nuisance.
Now you know why I do not believe in having dreams, I think you will understand better what my concept of the ideal person or model is. From now on, I will refer to the ideal person or model as “my ideal.” My ideal in life is to become the perfect one. In other words, if you want to translate this into the dream concept it will be like this “my dream in life is to become the perfect person.” As you can see, having a dream like this does not make any sense because it is impossible.
So now I bet you are thinking how do I pursue my ideal? To pursue my ideal, I try to work hard every day, I try to learn something new every day and make a difference in my day day that makes me a better human being. In addition, my ideal includes helping others on their needs without expecting anything in return because this way I make a difference. Also, I set goals in my life, which serve as steps of stairs that every time will make me come closer to my ideal. In other words, after accomplishing goals I have to have a new goal to continue my journey towards my ideal.
Moreover, I, a human being, will never become perfect because an essential aspect that makes me and you human beings is that we make mistakes. By following my ideal, I will have a reason to live and something to accomplish every day I am able to wake up. By these means, I try to become a better human being every day, getting as close as I can get to my ideal.
For example, today I woke up with three things to accomplish, learn as much as I can from my professors, do my homework carefully and finally help one friend with a quiz he has to take tomorrow and he really needs to do well on it. A broader example will be, when I was in high school my goal was to graduate with excellent grades to get in a prestigious institution that would help me as a tool to become an intellectual and better person. Now my goal is to succeed in my college career intellectually, socially and make a difference in our society. This will be another step to take in the stairs to reach my ideal.
Finally, I am taking the pass of mechanical engineering because I think is the most efficient way I can make a difference in the world. After, I become a mechanical engineer at Tech I want to work with a renewable energy company to design and make highly efficient apparatuses that can transform pollutants into useful energy. I have this goal, because I think that Earth really needs a rest of all the damage we have been doing with our pollution and deterioration. In other words, it is one of the biggest changes our world needs today.
As you can see, it is difficult to describe the concept of the ideal in words because it is extremely complex idea and to fully understand by means of intellect. To fully understand the concept of the ideal, an intellect is needed but you have to have a more spiritual and emotional state of mind.
For all those of you who love numbers I have come up with a quantitative “meaning” of the concept of my ideal. I see myself as the number 1 and my ideal is to reach the number 0. The division of me (number 1) by a larger and larger number reflects every step or goal I accomplish in my life. In other words it does not matter how the magnitude of the number I dived to the number 1 it will never reach the number 0 but it will be closer and closer to it.
No matter how many times you divide the number one you will never get to the number 0, but it will be extremely close to 0.
I hope you have at least understand the reason I wake up every morning to live my life. I did my best explaining this concept, but I am sure an explanation of my ideal is not enough through a blog.
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