I read over the different exercises that Daniel Pink recommended that we partake in in order to fully grasp the concept of empathy in our everyday lives. After considering a few options, I felt the most compelled to blog about “Volunteer.” Now I didn’t necessarily volunteer today or yesterday since the assignment was posted; however, I would like to reflect on a past memory that I decided to take on along with a few other of my friends.
It was summer time in my junior year of high school and me and a few friends had nothing to do. At the time I was actively involved with church and a couple of trips downtown to feed the homeless. I always wondered why we had to go with church officials? Why can’t I just go by myself with a group of friends and do the same work? So I did, and I asked friends to join and they thought it was a great idea. We each pitched in around 5 dollars which accumulated into 60 value meal burgers at McDonalds and 48 bottles of Deer Park water. This was all great and we were doing a great deed because we sympathized with these people who were less fortunate than us; however, Daniel Pink states the the difference between sympathy and empathy is that when you sympathize, you hurt for the individual, but when you empathize you hurt with the individual.
The giving out food end of the trip was the sympathy. This next story I’m about to tell you was empathy. I decided to set myself apart from the group to look around hurt park, which is right next to GA State. As I walked for probably only around a minute, I saw at least ten people with stories on their faces. Suddenly I had this tug on my heart to speak to one of them. It started off with simple conversation and for those who may not know, homeless people are not such a threat. Well some are, but most are very friendly and are just looking for a person to tell their story to. I was the lucky individual who got to hear how one man arrived to be the person he is today. His name was Kenny and he talked about how his family struggled ever since the recession wrecked America and ever since he’s been roaming the streets all across the southeastern United States.
Suddenly, this old man with dark brown freckles on his face transformed into this little boy as I saw tears trickle down his cheek. At that moment, I felt this enormous pull on my heart that told me to continue to reach out to these people and feed them for at least one day of their lives. I actually made a video of our trip in order to promote more trips downtown to feed the homeless and the numbers grew. If you guys want to you can add me on Facebook and my video is posted up there.