For my exercise on empathy, I decided to take Dan Pink’s advice and test myself. I chose to do two different tests that he suggested in this chapter. The first was the “Spot the Fake Smile” test and the second was the “Mind in the Eyes Test.” The first test was obviously a test to see whether or not you could spot a fake smile. The test displayed short video clips of 20 different people smiling, and the objective was to determine whether the smile was genuine or not. Each clip could only be viewed once, and so I had to make a judgement based on my first instinct. This test actually proved quite difficult and I scored 12 correct out of 20. For most people it really is hard to determine the difference between the genuine and fake smiles, as it is really only a slight difference in the way the person’s mouth and eyes move during the smile.
The next test I took, the “Mind in the Eyes Test,” was a test to see if you could determine the facial expressions of different people only based upon seeing their eyes. There would be a picture such as this:
and then four answers. At first I thought this test was going to be extremely difficult. I thought “How am I supposed to tell what these people are thinking by only looking at their eyes?” But in all honesty, after taking the test it really wasn’t nearly as hard as I thought it would be. For the picture above the choices were: “apologetic, friendly, uneasy, or dispirited.” Take a few seconds and see if you can figure out the answer. Rather than trying to analyze it in depth just go with your gut feeling, it usually is right. (The answer for this particular picture was ‘uneasy.’ Did you get it right?) I ended up scoring a very respectable 27 of 36 on the test. It seemed that, despite what I thought, the harder test for me was the first one about spotting the fake smiles.
Taking both of these tests was quite beneficial for me because it made me think about things that I would normally just take for granted. When I see someone laugh or smile, I never really think about whether it is actually genuine or not. And when I see someone’s facial expression, I generally just know how they are feeling or at least I can get a good idea of what they are thinking about. It was strange to actually take a test to see how good I was at doing these things that happen all the time during normal interactions with other people. Dan Pink wrote about how people all over the world recognized facial expressions all in the same way. This fact that people just inherently know how each other are feeling amazed me when I really thought about it, and it shows that we all can show empathy towards one another without even really trying.
PS- If you would like to try these tests yourself you can find them here:
Spot the Fake Smile - http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/mind/surveys/smiles/
Mind in the Eyes Test - http://glennrowe.net/BaronCohen/Faces/EyesTest.aspx