So after reading the Empathy section, I decided to eavesdrop myself. I went to the Tin Drum cafe the other day and like Daniel Pink said, I did not look at the people I decided to eaves drop on.
There were two people who were talking about astronomy. From what I recall, they were complaining about the ride to work. One of the people was complaining about how the traffic to work was so bad that he almost missed his first lecture of the day and the other was saying that he was already late to meet his intern. They then proceeded to argue about how Atlanta traffic could be much better.
Being from a major city myself (Detroit) and knowing how bad traffic can get, I was already partially in their shoes. But I never actually held a job. I realize the consequences for being late to work are a lot more severe than the consequences for being late to a lecture as a student in college.
But I imagined myself frantically looking at the clock and thinking, “damn, I’m going to be late!” while looking out in front me me and seeing that the traffic is not getting much better. My parents always said to me that better be early and sit rather than be late and lose an opportunity. This impacted me. I went to a private high school so my dad always had to drop me off at school. I didn’t really care much about getting to school on time as a senior, but I now realize what I put my dad through when he constantly yelled “I HAVE TO GET TO WORK GET IN THE CAR!”
The point it brought me to realize is that I need to make sure that I am not making others late when they rely on me or I rely on them. Also, I learned that getting into the habit of getting places on time is better when I learn it early on.
Anyway, back to the eavesdropping. After this thought, I tried to imagine who the people were. The first guy talking about lecture, I imagined as a German male in his early 50′s wearing a suit. The second I imagined as an Indian male in his early 40′s who was wearing jeans and a button up.
I want to say I hit the nail on the head, but I didn’t. The first guy was in his late 30′s and he was Caucasian and wearing a suit. The second male was Indian, but in his late 30′s as well. However, he was wearing a nice pair of slacks and a casual button up shirt. I was close!
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